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Why do some Younger Men like Older Women (Noona)?

1. Maturity and confidence

She brings a sense of maturity and confidence into relationship. Young women tend to be more fickle minded compared to mature women. Mature women know what they want and are much responsible in handling relationship. Older women by default bring more life experiences into the relationship and therefore nurture the growth of their partner without trying to be in command of the relationship.

2. Older woman are taboo

As we all know society favours the other way around. However, the normal tendency of people is that they want what they cannot have or what is a ‘forbidden fruit’.

3. Lesser Competition

Young women may have several men chasing after them. Older women offer an alternative. Also to an older woman a young man feels more attractive and boost to her ego that she tends to shower her attraction on him.

4. Taking charge

Young men do not have much experience with women and may not know what to expect with women. And it helps to have ‘take charge’ kind of women as a partner who has already been in the same situation earlier.

5. Intelligent and Confident

People gain more confidence as they grow older. Many young men find older woman attractive as tend to be less superficial. A conversation with an older woman can be interesting and intellectual whereas majority of younger woman tend to be silly, immature and sometimes shallow.

6. Independance

Most of them are financially independent and have successful careers. Men like it when his partner is self-sufficient and self-supportive and don’t need him to take care of her.

7. The need for Mothering

It is said that all males have a child in them. An Older woman can easily fulfill that need in them.

8. Attraction and Love

While some may find it odd that some young man surrounded by girls his age would find an older woman attractive. This is because they many older women are attractive and may even find romance or love in them.

(Credit: http://anamikas.hubpages.com/hub/Why-some-men-prefer-Older-Woman)